We are citizens of Venus, but once in a while we like to show the Martians love too! This is a topic that has been on my mind for quite some time. When it comes to pursuing a woman, for some reason, a lot of guys just don't get it! Sooo being the nice, caring, generous, compassionate (and the list goes on lol) person I am, I've decided to help the bruthas out :) First things first fellas, you have to remember that we are not THAT much different than you! Yes, we like attention but too much kills us too. Posh Powell and I asked our female friends on Twitter and Facebook what their #1 dating deal breaker was, and the top response was a man that is too clingy. Let me spell it out for you => excessive phone calls/text messages are a NO, extreme persistence is a NO, and nagging is a definite NO! Guys you must learn how to take hints, especially the ones that are right in front of your face! I know all this sounds simple, but you will not believe how many women complain about guys that seem to think that by ignoring them we are actually giving them the green light to try harder. For the guys that are guilty of this, I encourage you to look up Albert Einstein's definition of insanity. Maybe that will give you a better understanding of where we're coming from.
On to the next...Let's talk about sex! Or maybe not? Another reoccuring response was talking about sex too much or too soon. Let's be real, we all think about it but does it really have to be the main topic of discussion? You can't blame us for wondering what your motives are when you immediately start talking about sex during the first conversation. Like one of our respondents said, "...if we get on that level that topic will show up in due time!" So guys, no need to rush the topic, we like our men patient ;)
I know it's 2009 going on 2010 and all, but many of the old rules of dating still apply. When you invite a woman out on a date, you should be prepared to pay for her and you damn sure shouldn't be expecting her to pay for you! Some women may be willing to fork up their half, but no woman likes a cheapskate so you should at least offer. Even if you're the type of guy that always pays a woman's way, you could still lose brownie points for coming with a budget for the date. I'm not saying you have to go all out to impress her, but if you are on a budget my advice to you is stick with Outback if you know you can't afford Morton's (PLEASE don't take that too literally lol).
Ok, so I gave you three of the most popular responses to our dating deal breakers questionnaire. Since I love my martians oooh so much I'm gonna leave you with the rest. Good luck fellas! Oh, and a very special thank you to all the ladies that responded to our dating deal breakers question!
I know it's 2009 going on 2010 and all, but many of the old rules of dating still apply. When you invite a woman out on a date, you should be prepared to pay for her and you damn sure shouldn't be expecting her to pay for you! Some women may be willing to fork up their half, but no woman likes a cheapskate so you should at least offer. Even if you're the type of guy that always pays a woman's way, you could still lose brownie points for coming with a budget for the date. I'm not saying you have to go all out to impress her, but if you are on a budget my advice to you is stick with Outback if you know you can't afford Morton's (PLEASE don't take that too literally lol).
Ok, so I gave you three of the most popular responses to our dating deal breakers questionnaire. Since I love my martians oooh so much I'm gonna leave you with the rest. Good luck fellas! Oh, and a very special thank you to all the ladies that responded to our dating deal breakers question!
OTHER DATING DEAL BREAKERS:
Ignorance, poor conversation, bad vocabulary
Bitchassness (sp?)
Cheesy feet, bad shoes, poor appearance in general
Poor hygeine (bad breath/body odor)
No sense of humor
Smoking
Bad Kisser
Dishonesty
Ignorance, poor conversation, bad vocabulary
Bitchassness (sp?)
Cheesy feet, bad shoes, poor appearance in general
Poor hygeine (bad breath/body odor)
No sense of humor
Smoking
Bad Kisser
Dishonesty
